言说之巧(上) 疑人的事不可言说 蛊惑的事异端邪说 没有的事绝不妄说 他家的事不太好说 理亏的事不容分说 害人的事永远不说 错误的事不能传说 听来的事宁可莫说 感情的事无话可说 不实的事千万别说 尴尬的事羞对人说 误会的事就怕不说 街坊的事道听涂说 生气的事缓和再说 失误的事总会被说 道歉的事要自己说 纷诤的事再也不说 扫兴的事何必多说 劝诫的事看情况说 曾经的事好歹一说 (言說之巧(上) 疑人的事不可言說 蠱惑的事異端邪說 沒有的事絕不妄說 他家的事不太好說 理虧的事不容分說 害人的事永遠不說 錯誤的事不能傳說 聽來的事寧可莫說 感情的事無話可說 不實的事千萬別說 尷尬的事羞對人說 誤會的事就怕不說 街坊的事道聽塗說 生氣的事緩和再說 失誤的事總會被說 道歉的事要自己說 紛諍的事再也不說 掃興的事何必多說 勸誡的事看情況說 曾經的事好歹一說) yán shuō zhī qiǎo (shàng) yí rén de shì bù kě yán shuō gǔ huò de shì yì duān xié shuō méi yǒu de shì jué bù wàng shuō tā jiā de shì bù tài hǎo shuō lǐ kuī de shì bù róng fēn shuō hài rén de shì yǒng yuǎn bù shuō cuò wù de shì bù néng chuán shuō tīng lái de shì nìng kě mò shuō gǎn qíng de shì wú huà kě shuō bù shí de shì qiān wàn bié shuō gān gà de shì xiū duì rén shuō wù huì de shì jiù pà bù shuō jiē fāng de shì dào tīng tú shuō shēng qì de shì huǎn hé zài shuō shī wù de shì zǒng huì bèi shuō dào qiàn de shì yào zì jǐ shuō fēn zhèng de shì zài yě bù shuō sǎo xìng de shì hé bì duō shuō quàn jiè de shì kàn qíng kuàng shuō céng jīng de shì hǎo dǎi yī shuō

yán shuō zhī qiǎo (shàng) yí rén de shì bù kě yán shuō gǔ huò de shì yì duān xié shuō méi yǒu de shì jué bù wàng shuō tā jiā de shì bù tài hǎo shuō lǐ kuī de shì bù róng fēn shuō hài rén de shì yǒng yuǎn bù shuō cuò wù de shì bù néng chuán shuō tīng lái de shì nìng kě mò shuō gǎn qíng de shì wú huà kě shuō bù shí de shì qiān wàn bié shuō gān gà de shì xiū duì rén shuō wù huì de shì jiù pà bù shuō jiē fāng de shì dào tīng tú shuō shēng qì de shì huǎn hé zài shuō shī wù de shì zǒng huì bèi shuō dào qiàn de shì yào zì jǐ shuō fēn zhèng de shì zài yě bù shuō sǎo xìng de shì hé bì duō shuō quàn jiè de shì kàn qíng kuàng shuō céng jīng de shì hǎo dǎi yī shuō phrase The Art of Talking (1) Do not speak about your doubts of others. Spells and bewitchment are heretical teachings. Do not mention something that is not true. It is not your place to talk about others' family matters. Needless to defend yourself when in a wrong position. Never say anything that may cause harm to people. Never spread unwholesome and detrimental news. It is better not to discuss mere hearsay. There is nothing to say about relationships. Never bring up anything that is not true. Hold back sharing your moments of embarrassment. Be sure to clarify your misunderstandings. Neighborhood rumors are just gossip. Think thrice before you speak out of anger. Mistakes are always being mentioned. Apologies should be said in person. Never speak again of past disputes. There is no need to mention what may dampen moods. Give your advice only according to circumstances. It does not hurt to mention past experiences.
Domain: Buddhism 佛教 , Subdomain: Fo Guang Shan
Notes: (Glossary of Humanistic Buddhism)